A Women Like YOU
This is a shoutout to:
- All beautiful single women out there who have been constantly pestered over pressures of getting married, having a family;
- Who somewhere feel the need of having a companion they can bare their souls with and wonder what they have not done right to meet the basic societal norms;
- To all those out of toxic relationships which did not serve the basic definition of partnership;
- To all those who are still stuck in lifeless relationships for various reasons and feel:
Please bear in mind , think and follow:
- Wear that nice dress- Be yourself and add that much needed confidence & grace to it – There is nothing sexier than a great personality exuding confidence.
- Believe in soulmates, but don’t lose peace of mind over it– if it’s meant to be, it will be effortless. Love yourself until you find someone to love you more.
- Dream fearlessly, be it for a new venture or high paying job – no one can work as hard as you once you have determined!
- Live every day as if there is no tomorrow, do what makes you HAPPY – practice one of the many hard lessons of COVID!
- Listen to everyone, but do what aligns with your heart and mind – It is your story and you have every right to make each chapter as you want !!
- Nurture a hobby (painting/ dancing/ writing/ singing/ planting/ anything) – these are therapeutic and fulfilling!
- Cook only if it’s for passion – bang on that spaghetti or bean salad or rajma-rice!
- Eat what you like (food orgasm is like the REAL thing) and work-out even if you don’t like (that is necessary for survival)!
- Spend some time with your girl gang (having some friend zoned boys also help)– they will never judge you for anything; will be the best sounding board, critic and will only add fun quotient to your life! And none the less much needed INSPIRATION on desperate times.
- Talk to your mom about your emotional insecurities – she will have the best advice. Talk to your dad /brother/men confidante about your financial insecurities – they will have the best advice (experiences do matter at the end)!
- Indulge in physical intimacy or buy a vibrator or self-help or do nothing (whatever works for you)! There is nothing called right or wrong – Remember, one man’s food is other man’s poison!
- Play at-least one sport/ board game in a week – its important to lose in games to remain grounded in life (better to lose in board games than life games)!
- Pamper yourself – shop (be it dresses or shoes or bags), go for spa/ nail art…..you deserve all of it!
- Do travel (depending on your appetite and pocket) – its imp to get out of cocoon and see the world- new people, new places build new experiences and widen the lens!
- Live unapologetically; Be YOU but don’t lose kindness and humility in that endeavor! That is one shine you will always carry in your vanity!!
Thumb rule being – Make Self-love your playbook – your inner shine will light up the world and in your fragrance you will bloom. Get your HEAD and HEELS high always Ladies.
